Saturday, February 16, 2013

What women want



I've read articles on this particular subject and some make sense to me while others don't. I've even heard arguments based on it,some reasonable and some outrightly hilarious.

Going by the little I've come to know concerning women,I'd say they actually know what they want (at least most do).Yeah,sometimes they want to eat their cake and have it,but it still doesn't change the fact that they know what they want.Forget the fact that a woman is dating someone we'd all consider 'perfect'.Someone who has a good job,good moral standards,respect women,doesn't drink or smoke,quiet etc and yet sleeps with a certain guy who's carefree and spontaneous and smokes and drinks and clubs and womanizes,she still knows what she wants.If you ask her,she'll most likely tell you she can't settle with Mr.Smoke-drink-womanize.Funny thing is,most of them want the things the we men can give but sometimes don't.I'll outline and explain some and simple outline others.And their importance aren't in any particular order.If you ask me,I'd say they're all important.

1.Honesty: Women want honesty from their partners.Be straight with them always and you'd earn their respect.However,be very diplomatic and wise while doing this.Honesty hurts them sometimes and if you don't want to see your woman hurt,be wise even when you're being honest.If you want more on this,see me in camera with your registration fee.

2.Openness: You shouldn't keep things from your woman because it'll give her the wrong ideas like you not trusting her enough to confide in her.However,again,you should be wise.There are some things that are best kept to yourself,no need getting her agitated when you could avoid it.

3.Spontaneous: The reason why some women find some men boring is because they're predictable.They don't seize moments.Their women know when they'll kiss them or want to make love to them or take them out etc.You should be able to just pop into her office with chocolates and flowers,tap her ass when she walks past you,kiss her when she's cooking in the kitchen,strip and do her right there in the sitting room (hope the kids are sleeping? Don't want to spoil anybody's baby o),you can wake her up with your hard-on sef but make sure she's not tired o.Show up at the hairdressing salon when you know she isn't expecting you.Trust me,if you can do these,you'd be the most exciting thing after the internet.

4.Respect: If you think not insulting her is what I mean,then you're a little right but mostly wrong.It goes way beyond that.Changing the channel while she's seeing watching,without taking permission from her,is disrespect.Saying negative things about her to people (friends or not) is disrespect.Chatting with a very pretty girl while in her presence is big disrespect (they mostly don't mind the ugly ones hehehe).Walking out of her while she's expressing herself is disrespect.Going out with her and forgetting she's with you is a huge disrespect.You should've gotten the picture by now,else see me in camera with your registration fee.

5.Expressive: This means if you love her,say it.If she's upsetting you,say it.If you want her to 'blow' you more,say it.If you think her make-up is too thick,say it.If you don't like the fact that she has male friends,say it.Don't keep things all bottled up inside because they don't like it when you explode and bottling things up lead to explosion.

6.Prospects: Every woman want a man with dreams.A man who has a picture of what he wants and is working intensely to get them.If you're okay with being at a medium or low level,then they don't want to be with you.

7.Listening: One way to blow a woman's mind is to always listen to her.Trust me,you don't have to hear every word,but my all means pretend you are.But if you can hear every word,then my man,your bread has been buttered.They were born to talk.They talk about the market,their hair,their cloths,things they bought,people they saw,places they went to,things they ate,things happening to them,everything you can even think of.Just listen,whether they're interesting or not.But if you have the one that doesn't shut up,RUN!!!

8.God fearing: You don't have to be a tongue-speaking-prayer-worrior-church-sleeping-church-worker,just know the place of God I your life.

9.Attention

10.Gifts

11.Confidence

12.Friendship

13.Good sex

14.Money: I know you love her,but let us be realistic,na love person go chop? You don't have to have all the money in the world (it wouldn't hurt to have it sha),but have enough to be able to take care of yourself and also take care of her.

15.LOVE!!!

I'd let the list rest here!

20 comments:

  1. Counsellor 9-ja Great, you do well.

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    1. Hahaha Another title has added? Thanks.

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  2. Spot on! Especially the spontaniety - so.very.important.

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    1. Hahahaha I know spontaneity is very important to you women.Thanks for stopping by.

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  3. Laughing and clapping....nothing to add o jare. You hit the nails on the head #GBAM#

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  4. Hmm... number 10! lol... but I like your list

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    1. It's true nau,you people like gifts.Thanks.

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    1. I mentioned wisdom a few times to stress it's importance,i should've made it a part of the list.Wisdom is veeeeery important.

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  6. hehe but list can go on n on :P
    u know that :D

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    1. Oh yes Jyoti,the list is almost endless.

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  7. Hehehe! Niceeee..... Made me laugh but plenty truth in this (y)

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  8. Oh yeah!!!! TELLL DDEEEEMMMM.........Gbam!

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  9. BRO. WOMEN,DON`T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. GIVE THEM ALL THIS AND THEY STILL LOOK FOR CRACKS.

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    1. Hahaha True that.But most of them know what they want.

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