Hi people,i trust the week is going well so far? As for me,i do not have any reason to complain.I had a shocker a few days back.You know the kind of shocker that leaves you wow-ing for a few hours.I must've used up like a million wows...don't worry,we still have a good number of wows left that you can use,i didn't exhaust them all.Ok,to the main post.
You know,there's this saying that "Behind every successful man,there's a woman".Though the saying has been modified alot,but i choose to use the original one.The saying holds true,but i have come to realize that a man can choose to make a woman 'good' or 'bad'.Men have expectations in a relationship,so do women.If these expectations aren't met,at least most of it,there will always be problems.Nagging,crying,depression,late nights,infidelity etc.I'm not a marriage or relationships counselor so i won't be able to give you that which i sense you need,but here's what i sure can do.For the guys,i can give you something that'll make a major difference in your relationship and even marriage (though i'm not married,but as far as you're married to a 'woman' and not anything else,it'd work just as well).
I have come to realize having a good relationship isn't a mirage at all,it can be attained.However,it takes dedication,honesty,and very importantly,sensitivity.There are little things that we take forgrated simply because we're not sensitive to their effects and what they can achieve.Here are some highlights that would help you as a guy to make that special lady fall in love with you over and over again and they all borders around sensitivity;
1. You should always compliment her hair.Yes,her hair.Whenever a woman has on a new hairdo and you don't compliment her,you give her the impression that the hair's not beautiful or you're insensitive.If you don't notice the new hairdo at all,God help you.
2. Another thing you should compliment is her nail coating.You better know when she's changed her nail coat and compliment her accordingly.If you want to blow her mind,learn how to coat nails and do it for her sometimes (i do it *wink*).
3. I believe if you're in a relationship,your sensitivity should tell you when your woman has on a new piece of clothing; scarf,dress,skirt,pants,under-cloth etc.She mostly buys those clothing for your pleasure and trust me,nothing can kill the excitement of putting on the piece of clothing better than your not noticing it.
4. Call her often.Forget stalking,there's no such thing as stalking when you love someone.Trust me,she'll love it if you can call her a million times in a day (but you do have a job or business to run,don't you?).Call her,text her,you don't need a reason to.The fact that you love her reason enough.
5. Always ask about her loved ones; family,friends,colleagues etc.This portrays that you care enough to want to know about every aspect of her life.
6. Hold her hands often.Holding hands actually portrays closeness and not only that,it also encourages more closeness.Again,you don't need a reason to hold her hands,just do it.
7. Take her out as often as possible.This somehow is so important,as i've come to realize.It gives her the assurance you're serious with her.Plus,women like to be seen around their men,ask them why,don't ask me!
8. Play with her.Funny right? Wrong! It's very important to play with her.Run around the house,engage in pillow fight,carry her on your back or arm (i do those).This has the capability to bring you guys very close.
9 .Kiss her at every slightest opportunity.Except if your woman is the type who doesn't like kissing,by all means look for every opportunity to kiss her.If she's in the kitchen,you can just leave whatever you're doing,walk up to her and kiss her then get back to whatever you were doing.If you're busy with something and she passes by,you can just call her and kiss her.Trust me,you'll blow her mind.I have also achieved alot by these.*wink*
9.Cuddle her always.I think this very gesture reaches out to the heart,it's not proven but i'm almost certain it does.
10. Say these words "I love you" as often as possible.Trust me,they never get tired of hearing them and what do you have to lose? It's not as if you pay for everytime you say it or you're going to exhaust it.However,don't just say it ceremoniously,say it like you mean it.If you do love her,why won't you mean it?
The highlighted are mostly taken forgrated,however,they are very very important.I know they sound so ordinary,but they're more important than the things we consider big.Trust me,they can make a whole lot of difference in your relationship.Don't forget my fee when the going gets better,i don't charge so much,but i shoulkd be able to get a house in Banana Island with what i'll charge you.Don't be scared,it'll be just one house,not more! Hahahahaha