Hey people,you know i just don't like staying away for long period of time.How have you been? I know my personal people are good and i know the rest of you are good too.
There are people who thrive on making others feel awful about themselves.Whether in terms of achievements or capabilities.They just don't do or say anything to encourage others.When i was growing up,i had kids who i had to cut off from because we fought alot due to the fact that they always said things to upset me or my friends.One would think that was the end of it,but nope,had some more of such butt-heads when i was a teenager.A group of acquaintances i had were very mean to themselves and others.They brought others down with their words and also one another and thus they mostly had issues within themselves (I still can't understand why they were friends).I realized this in time and cut off almost totally from them.
I've been thinking,why do people say mean and spiteful things to others and the answer is very plain,WEAKNESS! You heard right.Have you ever considered how hard it is to do the right things? Let me relate it to my favorite topic,relationships.As a guy,have you ever considered how hard it is to be faithful to just one gurl? As a gurl,have you ever considered how easy it is to add weight than to lose it? As Christians,have you ever considered how easy it is to commit sin and how hard it is not to? What am i driving at? Well,i'm tryna say doing the wrong thing is way easier than doing the right thing.This has been proven over and over.So,for those who bring people down with their words,i really don't blame them,they are very weak.For them,real weakness lies in being nice (with their words of course).So,if you know anyone who's mean with words or actions,don't try to get upset or pick a fight with them,you'd only condescend to their level.Rather,be nice to them and if they refuse to change,ignore them.You think you're strong? Try not to get people down with your words or actions,only then will you be considered strong.Have a pleasant weekend!