Yeah,back to the main koko this very lovely day.This post ought to have been up a long time ago,don't know why i never put it up.Anyway,lemme give you a brief history of me and my dad.I've been living with my mum since i was born and my relationship with my dad has been awkward.However,in recent years we've been trying to work on it.Before i continue,i'd like to say i've grown in these recent years.When i say 'grown',i'm not talking age-wise,but in terms of wisdom.You'll get to know why in a moment.Formally i could go a year without talking to my dad and not even feel it.If you're guessing we don't see,then your guess is sooo right.Truth is,i never even felt it.But in recent years,like i mentioned earlier,we've been working on our relationship and so we talk sort of often.Well,if you call once a month or almost two months often.The reason is not unconnected to the fact that he use to take me to be very unserious and he used to say stuffs like "If you like,be unserious with your life and think you'd come and inherit my money".Those words rang in my head for a long time and i've been a workaholic ever since.I just knew i have to prove to him he's so wrong and i ain't gonna think of his money ever.But as time went on,i realized i was making a mistake.I shouldn't prove anything to him,i should prove to myself that i was awesome (yeah,bite me!).So right now,i don't prove to anyone but to myself.
Anyway,when he started knowing of my achievements,the old man really buckled up and really started trying to make it work and normally i would've made it hell for him,but because i grew in wisdom,i met him halfway.A few weeks back,things took a new toll,i mean his respect for me became very pronounced and heightened.He came to my house for the very first time and he was very proud and impressed and kept on saying it.Now,to the main koko.He told me he got married.Yeah,you heard right! He got married and i wasn't even aware of it! Guess what i did?!