Thursday, November 17, 2011

Women aren't complicated,men are insensitive

I have heard men say time and time again that women are complicated.Truth be told,i'd even said it once or twice.But that was before i really got to understand the wonderful creatures God blessed mankind with called WOMEN! I'm always very inquisitive and that's how i've gotten to understand women better,i'm not saying i'm a pro.

Women are quite easy to understand,but the men in their lives who do not understand them and who complain about them are just not sensitive and patient enough.Here's one very simple truth i've discovered; To be happy with a woman,you have to be very sensitive and patient.Yeah,you have to be very sensitive.A man's head is less stacked,trust me when i say this.Our thought pattern is very predictive; money,big boy toys (cars,aaaaaaaaamazing wrist watches,computers and so on),sex.But in a woman's head,it a different ball game.They think of money,family,their looks,their man's feeling about them,their neighbors' feeling about them,their colleagues,the gutter in front of the compound...they think basically of anything and everything,whether important or trivial.Because women think alot,they tend to worry alot and that is the reason why you,as a man,need patience to be with them.

In case you've not realized that women were created to talk,please do now and because you need to listen.Yes,listen! Lemme just give you guys out there tips to make life easier for you;

Listen to her
Like i said earlier,women were created to talk,so listen and by all means try not to interrupt until she's done.And mind you,she'll talk about everything and anything.Her make-up,her colleagues,her family,her clothes....basically everything.So just listen.A woman will make you her 'bestie' if only you can be patient enough to listen.Yeah,i am advising you to gossip with her,it's sometimes fun.LOL

Reassure her
If there's one thing you ought to know,it is that women are constantly in doubt.They doubt their intelligence,beauty,and sometimes even your love.So it is your duty to reassure her always and let her know everything is going to be alright.

Be very patient
This is one attribute that'd get you very far with a woman.You see,women go through alot.Remember the thought pattern i mentioned earlier? As a result,they tend to get moody alot and so you should be patient with them at such times.It is going to be disastrous getting mad over the fact that she gets moody a few times,it is quite normal.Again,won't you agree with me that their monthly 'issues' is enough reason to make them moody? Now you know another reason why you should be patient.

Compliment her
Women are very particular about their looks and that is why they go through so much trouble to look very beautiful.It's going to be very unfair to just smile and kiss them without saying something like "You look very beautiful baby" or "You look amazing,i am very lucky to have snatched you".Trust me,if you compliment her regularly,you'll have her so hooked on you that you'd think you're a designer drug.Remember,women are moved by words,even LadyNgo has finally agreed with me.*smiles*

Say "I love you" often
The good thing about this one is that you don't even have to mean it,just say it.But it'd be better if you mean it too.Say "I love you often" and you'd make her feel very good often.Lots of times you'd even win yourself kisses or even 'show',you know what i mean.Hehehehehehehehe

That is where i'd stop for now,but just be very sensitive and you'd get other tips yourself.However,if you can work on these ones i've given,i promise you you'd get results.I'll send you my invoice when the jobs is done.Hehehehehehehehehe


  1. Oga therapist, what are you feeling like hehn?

    Anyway in as much as I dont encourage 9jaGreat to think He's God's gift to women, I must agree its true. Maybe with little difference depending on the woman and u're good to go, by that I mean, never lie to a woman, she'll know except she just wants you to feel good about yourself before calling you out!

  2. lol @PET this is true tho, if only men could understand women, this world would be a better place.

  3. 9ja great, pls who is the lady in your life? i need to tell her how lucky she is

  4. @P.E.T Projects: Don't worry,i'm ok feeling like 9ja's Great.LOL

    @Sisi Yemmie: True that.

    @Luciano: Hehehehehehehehe

  5. this guy gona write a relationship book eventually or is that just in my head?

    @Pet, So with you. Never Lie to a woman. She might hate u @ 1st bt she'll get over it but lies? mba/nay/non/rara/N to d O! it annoys me when guys try to play smart by feeding u crap. smh

  6. @Toinlicious: Well,the guy might consider writing a relationship book sometime later,but it's not really in his book right now.

  7. My dear... I know I have told you to write a book. This is definitely a perspective most men dont have.

  8. A-9ja-Great, the Love Doctor. Once your office is opened, holla @ moi, so I can send some dudes over.

    You've been scarce on my blog *sad much*

  9. Hey hey hey, i did not agree o! I only said you may have a point..but that's only when everything else falls in place correctly. Talk and do, not just talk!

    Anyway, i was with you up until that last one. I think there needs to be some employee discipline inflicted here if you are really going around telling men to say 1-4-3 when they don't mean it.

    And it only further proves our point that actions need to back up the words for us womenfolk to truly be moved. A man can tell me he loves me until he is blue in the face but if his actions don't match his words i won't believe him!

    You tricked me into coming back here. *slams door on the way out*

  10. how is it that you dont do any of these things to me, your virtual woman?!abi it is only for those in non-virtual relationships?!lol
    Actually, I dont think a man can ver understand a woman. I don't even think nature intended it that way. I think the best way is for men to understand that they cannot fully understand a woman...everything she does and says is on a case-by-case basis..
    All of that doesnt negate any of the important ides u mentioned sha!

  11. wow great insight, but there is more to this list. This are just the basics, but you did a very good job. Kudos to you :)

  12. neat! never tot i'ld hear a guy say men are insensitive.. keep the wwriting up

  13. Yes, yes, yes, preach... I think it's all about up bringing. They teach men to be dominant and not show women the TLC they need (except when they first approach her). Im mean jeez..there are even love letters in the bible so what other excuses could there be...

  14. BRO....Why do i have this feeling this post is just a way to get into the good books of all the Ladies here?? You do have some points but what i know is,WOMEN ARE COMPLICATED...

  15. chei...who made this guy an expert on women...and i didnt agree with some of the things that were written

  16. @9jaFoodie: Thanks.

    @Che: I will definitely holla at you when i'm all set.Meanwhile i apologize for my absence,i'm on my way to your blog now.

    @LadyNgo: If you recall,i said it'd be nice if the guys say the 'i love you' and mean it.And you know you can't be mad at the blog,we love you.LOL

    @HoneyDame: My honey,i'll start doing these things ok,but i still won't move to asia o.LOL

    @BSNC: There certainly is more to the list,but i just gave some insights.

    @Mikki: Hahahahahaha I agree with you Mikki.

    @DIDI: Common bro,you know i'm already in the good book of the ladies.LOL

    @Shareen: Experience made him what he is o.LOL

  17. Man, you have become the blogger love doctor! Nice one :)

  18. @Myne Whitman: Hahahahaha Thanks Myne,so i've heard.

    @Okeoghene: Hahahahahaha

  19. You're a correct guy for putting up this post jare :D

    Muse Origins FB

  20. @Muse Origins: Thanks Adiya,you are a correct babe for acknowledging that.

  21. I hope the men are taking notes oh. Good one dear :-)

  22. @BSNC: Thanks alot dear,i'm sure they are.DIDI was here.LOL

  23. very good post! loving it!!

  24. Knock, Knock, anybody home? You have been MIA. Hope you are alright and work ain't too stressful. Come back soon kk.

  25. @Ms.composure: Thanks alot.

    @Che: Yeah,work's been a bit pressing.Thanks for checking on me though.*hugs*

  26. Haha.. ermm in as much as i hate to admit it TRUE!

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