I have heard men say time and time again that women are complicated.Truth be told,i'd even said it once or twice.But that was before i really got to understand the wonderful creatures God blessed mankind with called WOMEN! I'm always very inquisitive and that's how i've gotten to understand women better,i'm not saying i'm a pro.
Women are quite easy to understand,but the men in their lives who do not understand them and who complain about them are just not sensitive and patient enough.Here's one very simple truth i've discovered; To be happy with a woman,you have to be very sensitive and patient.Yeah,you have to be very sensitive.A man's head is less stacked,trust me when i say this.Our thought pattern is very predictive; money,big boy toys (cars,aaaaaaaaamazing wrist watches,computers and so on),sex.But in a woman's head,it a different ball game.They think of money,family,their looks,their man's feeling about them,their neighbors' feeling about them,their colleagues,the gutter in front of the compound...they think basically of anything and everything,whether important or trivial.Because women think alot,they tend to worry alot and that is the reason why you,as a man,need patience to be with them.
In case you've not realized that women were created to talk,please do now and because you need to listen.Yes,listen! Lemme just give you guys out there tips to make life easier for you;
Listen to her
Like i said earlier,women were created to talk,so listen and by all means try not to interrupt until she's done.And mind you,she'll talk about everything and anything.Her make-up,her colleagues,her family,her clothes....basically everything.So just listen.A woman will make you her 'bestie' if only you can be patient enough to listen.Yeah,i am advising you to gossip with her,it's sometimes fun.LOL
If there's one thing you ought to know,it is that women are constantly in doubt.They doubt their intelligence,beauty,and sometimes even your love.So it is your duty to reassure her always and let her know everything is going to be alright.
Be very patient
This is one attribute that'd get you very far with a woman.You see,women go through alot.Remember the thought pattern i mentioned earlier? As a result,they tend to get moody alot and so you should be patient with them at such times.It is going to be disastrous getting mad over the fact that she gets moody a few times,it is quite normal.Again,won't you agree with me that their monthly 'issues' is enough reason to make them moody? Now you know another reason why you should be patient.
Women are very particular about their looks and that is why they go through so much trouble to look very beautiful.It's going to be very unfair to just smile and kiss them without saying something like "You look very beautiful baby" or "You look amazing,i am very lucky to have snatched you".Trust me,if you compliment her regularly,you'll have her so hooked on you that you'd think you're a designer drug.Remember,women are moved by words,even LadyNgo has finally agreed with me.*smiles*
Say "I love you" often
The good thing about this one is that you don't even have to mean it,just say it.But it'd be better if you mean it too.Say "I love you often" and you'd make her feel very good often.Lots of times you'd even win yourself kisses or even 'show',you know what i mean.Hehehehehehehehe
That is where i'd stop for now,but just be very sensitive and you'd get other tips yourself.However,if you can work on these ones i've given,i promise you you'd get results.I'll send you my invoice when the jobs is done.Hehehehehehehehehe