Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Badasses looking for saints

Yeah i know the title is a bit crazy,but i don't know how else to express it.Somehow i just started thinking about this; Bad guys wanting to hook up with good gurls and vice versa.If being bad is such a good thing,why continue being bad? Why not just be good if you want a good gurl or guy? Good and bad here isn't in terms of personality o,it's as relate to dealings with relationships and sexuality and all.
I have a friend who actually sleeps around (not that he planned on doing so,but something happened along the way),but he keeps saying he needs a good gurl.I mean,guys say gurls who do certain things in bed are bad and so they are on the look out for such gurls so they'll just play with them.I just start wondering when i come across such guys (yeah,i wonder when that friend of mine starts saying such).A guy that drinks heavily,parties often,add clubbing to that,smokes,likes saying obscene things and likes sex,would want to be serious with a gurl who doesn't drink or party or clubs...the annoying thing is good gurls fall for bad guys (that's a story for another day).This is something i don't quite get because it's different with me...yes,lemme come clean a bit.I'm an example of a not-so-good-guy.I party,i club,i drink (not occasionally,not often also..*wink*),i do some very naughty things.But the thing is all these things are controlled and so when i am looking out for a gurl,i don't go looking for the saint,nope,don't like saints...hehehehehe,but for the one that is like me.The one that drinks like a lady,parties,clubs,say nasty stuffs but all at the right time.

So,here's a thought; if you think being bad isn't cool,simply change your ways and be good.Don't continue being bad and go searching for a saint.It's cooler when you have someone as bad or as good as yourself,that way una go rhyme wella.Just for the records,all the gurls i ended up breaking up within very short periods were good gurls,i stayed longer with the ones that were not exactly good.Have a nice day people and happy new month to you all!

19 comments:

  1. Tell t hem oh... no be everytime opposites they attract! Mstcheew
    *strutting away*

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  2. Happy new month to you too... Pet projects don talk am already... Frankly I don't even believe in that whole opposites thingy. It's a bad idea.

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  3. I think you have to find the right balance of opposite. If you and your partner are alike in every possible way life could get boring.

    As for the post, (most) guys are looking for a girl they can bring home to mama even if they themselves don't fit the standard of a guy you can bring home to meet daddy. And (some) girls are looking for an exciting, adventurous, dangerous guy. It is what it is i guess. I believe in being the person you want to find. Can't be out doing xyz but forbid your partner from doing the same.

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  4. @P.E.T Projects: Hehehehehe...i dey feel you jare!

    @Madame Sting: Thanks!

    @Prism of an immigrant: Yeah,it mostly is a bad idea!

    @LadyNgo: I agree with this; "I think you have to find the right balance of opposite. If you and your partner are alike in every possible way life could get boring." Thanks alot dear!

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  5. to each his own. Like i personally like good guys.. i've never found the so-called players aka bad guys attractive. I am attracted to guys i can see as potential husbands lol

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  6. lol interesting post. It has always been like that. Some good girls will always be attracted to a bad guy cos its something they are not used to. I guess sometimes it has to do with maturity too. The older you get you would want to settle with someone you feel safe with.

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  7. @Kitkat: You're one of the few who like good guys,trust me.

    @BSNC: Trust me,maturity doesn't have any role in it.Even matured women tend to fall for bad guys.

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  8. Thing is, bad boys seem cool, until you get with them. It's really funny though how bad girls look for good girls. but if good girls are attracted to bad boys, maybe that means they have some bad in them (but are afraid to express it themselves) or something. Me no know oh

    Adiya
    http://thecornershopng.blogspot.com/

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  9. Lady Ngo captured what was on my mind after reading your post. There has ti be a balance else the relationship with be boring. BTW who said liking sex is bad?

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  10. @The Corner Shop: I see reason in what you're saying.Maybe the good gurls who like bad guys have some bad in them but are scared of showing it.

    @Okeoghene: Yeah,i agree that there has to be a balance.Sex? Alot of people still look at it like it's a taboo and in their sights,it's not a cool or fun activity.

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  13. lol... @lady Ngo... well, a man can be charming,exciting, adventurous etc and a good man... there should be a balance..

    For me, am not wild or "badass" but I like to have fun; have a good conversation and laugh (my man doesn't have to be "gangstar") but am never attracted to a "boring" man... People mistake interesting with bad :(

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  14. btw; those ones that think they re cool when they re just irresponsible re turn-offs!!

    I dont see why girls r attracted.. but that's just me I guess hehehe

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  15. @Okeoghene: I totally agree with you.They lie!

    @Abi Tobi: Well,like you said it's just you.Agreed a man can be interesting without being bad,but lots of gurls fall for the one that are bad.I mean the ones that have booty call on the side and all that.

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  16. sigh @ the age old story of opposites attract!!!

    someone once told me that "you get whom you deserve'. Chikena!!!

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  17. @Kiah: Hmmm,i like that theory!

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