Hey people,i was actually away for a few days.Not on vacation though,but for my aunty's traditional marriage.The trip was a very crazy one.I had to take excuse from my office to live on Friday and because my elder brother wouldn't let me drive him on the highway (no mind the fear fear guy jare),i sat while he drove.Halfway we had a flat tire and because i was the younger of the two of us,i had to be the one to go get it fixed and all (remind me not to come out last in my next life).We got to the village and everything went well (leaving me with pain all over my body though) until we had to go and drop some of the invitees.Just minutes from where we were to drop them off,one of the rear tires pulled off entirely.Luckily for us we weren't on speed and there were no vehicles on speed behind us.Anyways,we managed to get the vehicle off the road and because it was late and there was no way to fix it,so we paid someone to watch it,left it and went back to the village.Now i am back!
This post is a rather serious one and you'd soon find out why.Everyday we're faced with issues where we have to make certain decisions.I mean you are even sometimes faced with the decision of whether or not to go to work,right? Life comes with lots of decisions to be made,but it's in your best interest to take time to think before you decide because making the wrong decision is detrimental to you either psychologically,emotionally or even physically.I know of a lady who against the advices and threats of her parents went ahead to marry the man she loved.Well,after a few years of marriage she turned into a punch-bag,not before she started sharing him with countless other gurls.She reached a point where she was to make a decision,she made it and is paying severely for it,You can hear the regret in her voice even before she tells you about it,you can even see it in her eyes.People make various decisions daily and some of them end up hunting them for the rest of their lives.In my estate where i used to live before i moved out,had some guys who decided to join various cults.The result? Well,lets just say some of them won't have to worry about decision ever...they died.Some of them are in jail,while some are being stigmatized.
Actually,this post was encouraged an sms i received just this morning.It's was so full of regret and it got me wondering.If you know you'd regret a decision,why make it? I mean life is too short to live your life in regret.Some regrets are just for a while,while some are like a part of your life.So,before you make a decision,think it through thoroughly and make sure it's not the one that'll make you live a life of regret.Believe me,it's not worth it living a life of regret...life was meant to be enjoyed,not regretted.I wish you the best people.Have a nice day and week ahead!