Yesterday was such that made me hate being a bachelor.I mean i closed from work and had to got to the market,got stuffs for the food i wanted to prepare and got home.I cooked,even though i was quite tired and almost swearing.Anyways,i finished and couldn't even eat immediately.It was during this periods that i started reminiscing about what someone said "A friend comes to visit you in jail,while a good friend sits with you in the jail sell saying "Mehn we fucked up"".That made sense,i mean a whole lot of sense.A good friend is one that stays with you through thick and thin.He's always there in your best times and even in your worst times.But,there's a time when one should walk out on his friend and damn that good-friend-sticking-with-you-in-your-best-times-and-worst-times ****.
I know you're prolly wondering what this 9ja great is saying.Well,i'm definitely going to be explicit and carry you along,afterall,it's you and me *in Life House's voice*.Back to the topic jare! There are some people who don't deserve meaningful friendships because they themselves are not meaningful.You know what i mean by meaningful friendship...it's that type that adds value to your life,i mean the symbiotic type.You-gain-i-gain! You see,there are some friendships that are purely worthless.Imagine someone who is void of plans for the future being friends with someone who is equally void of plans for the future,the friendship between the two is going to be simply worthless (but them go match sha).Now imagine someone who doesn't have anything to offer being friends with someone who has alot to offer,the person would be gaining while the other one would be losing.In biology it is called a parasitic relationship.The one who doesn't have anything to offer is a parasite to the other.
However,there are times when you are in a person's life for a reason.Sometimes you romance someone who doesn't have anything to offer just so you could affect the person's life.This could be a very sweet kind of friendship.But,there are some people,like i said earlier,who don't deserve your friendship because the more you try to affect their lives,the more they try to be their old self.For instance,some people are so negative that everything fails in their hands.Being friends with such kind of person could be detrimental to you because some of them are so caught up in their negative world that they may even drag you into it if you're not strong willed enough.Also,sometimes when you're friends with people,initially you may not won't know the kind of person they are until the friendship travels a little into time.You may end up realizing the person doesn't have plans and when you try to affect the person's life to reshape ideas and beliefs,the person might still be 'planless'.At this point,you really should just draw the line,i mean call it quits! If you realize your best friend has changed from what he used to be and you try to get him to revert to his old self to no avail,you really should let it go.I mean,break the friendship.Through thick and thin huh? If you have that in mind,you may end up losing your way.Sometimes you may be in a very wrong path and have a best friend who's also in that path.However,when you do realize the right path and try to drag your friend along and he refuses to follow that right part,you should simple walk away,for your own good.So in all kinds of friendship,there's a time to draw a line,a time to walk away.Personally i have broken up some friendships just because they didn't go in line with where i am going.Have a nice they people and it may just be time to let some so-called friends go.