Friday, April 8, 2011

G is for Graciously crazy

There are things you do and when you look back at them,you shake your head,laugh at yourself or outrightly consider yourself crazy.That's the case of this young Libra man who was crazilly in love with a calabar gurl.Whether na  'Cobnomi' o or na just pure love,na only God go fit explain at this point...hehehehehehe.

One thing i failed to mention when i gave you guys the story of my ex and i was that she had a child,a baby gurl who is like 3yrs now.During the birth of the child,there was a complication and her uterus got affected.The doctors told her she wouldn't be able to give birth that she should forget trying,this was after she lost like 3 pregnacies...em...well...the thing is...2 were mine.Don't ask me nada about that cos i ain't telling! Anyways,she told me about this and asked me if i still wanted to continue being with a woman who won't be able to bear children,i told her i was willing to take the chance but i knew i was gonna have children by her.She told me to stop dreaming and start thinking straight,i told her i was gonna be with her no matter what.She told me i might say that but won't be happy with a woman who can't bear children after like 10yrs of marriage,i told her i was ok with being happy and i was very happy with her.

That was like 7 to 8 months ago,looking back now i am thinking "Was i effing crazy?".To think that i did and said all those without a gun pointed to my head.Maybe it was the 'cobnomi' working...hehehehehe.But truth still remain,if she hadn't taken the road she took on 'us',i'd have actually come through on my promise.I'd have actually married her without looking back,yeah,i loved her that much and i'm prolly crazy like that.I just know God has a plan and purpose for everything,He maybe didn't want me to make such a mistake and so allowed it all to crash.I still can't believe though that i was gracefully crazy...*shakes my head*

9 comments:

  1. Your heart was making in charge of your head when U were taking those decisions and i guess those who have truly being in love would not see U as being Crazy..I Don`t too and i guess the whole thing crashed coz God also had his own game plan..

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  2. Lost pregnancies... ok, dont ask = dont tell.

    Maybe just maybe that would have broken the marriage in the future... or maybe not... you'll never find out now... keep moving jare!

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  3. what a coincidence that i planned on blogging about this very same topic. hmmm, get out of my brain Mr. 9ja-Great! lol

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  4. No wonder you both can't forget each other in a hurry! Losing pregnancy together is a big deal, even bigger than sex. Hmm...

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  5. Oh wow! You guys have been through a LOT! No wonder it's so hard for her to let go.

    Adiya

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  6. omg.. i'm speechless. *sighs*

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  7. Blessings......
    Some people are for but a moment for lessons to be learnt once the lesson is learnt the time comes for a parting of the ways. It is the way it is, not everything is for a life time. Just be thankful for the love and the lessons and take that knowledge into your future to make better decisions.

    Peace..
    Rhapsody

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  8. All-No wonder she is finding it hard to forget about me?! Yeah right! You all are forgetting she actually decided to sacrifice 'US' for her family.If us losing pregnancies together is such a big deal,why the hell did she take such step? I just so furious at her right now,she has no excuse to be bothering my life as far as i'm concerned.She's simply being wicked.

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  9. LadyNgo-Sorry dear,i tend to enter into people's heads lots of times.But i'd try not to enter your head next time...hehehehehehe

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