I presume your weekends were great cos i had a very lovely one even though i spent it indoors.And on sunday,i had maximum fun in God's presence with Frank Edwards taking praise and worship for a few minutes (was told the guy was small,but never anticipated he'd be that small).Anyways,the weekend was just awesome sha.
My closet has been very dirty these few months and thus needed serious cleaning...I don't mean that literally in case you're confused or something.I had a very heart breaking breakup last year that dragged into this year somehow (that's a story for another day) and somehow,i changed from the kind of person i used to be.In my defense,it was in a bid to forget stuff.I know some of you might be tempted to judge me after reading this post,but don't bother cos i already did that on your behalves.
I am generally a very nice person (Eh ehn,what?! Can't i blow my own trumpet every once in a while?!).On the real though,i actually am nice based on the feedback i've gotten from friends and acquaintances.But i get like twice nice when it has to do with women.To me,they were created to be loved and cared for,thus my sentiment.I'm not a saint,but i really try to do right by my gurls.I mostly don't cheat on them (true story) and i always made sure i listen to them and give them all the time they desire and i can give.However,all those changed when i had that very terrible breakup.The breakup was terrible because i could have sworn i had found my wife,you know,my soul mate (since i now know it does exist).Anyways,i became a very different person (though i managed to still be nice and caring)...I became what i criticized! Work was always pressing so i didn't go out much,but i was always on the internet.There's this phone app i had on my phone that allows for meeting people and chatting and that app helped turn me into a 'terrible person'.The gurls first go to my profile and when they see my pix they always wanna chat.And when we chat they mostly fall (Let's just say i am good with words) and the next thing is they wanna be by my side.Between December 2010 and February this year,i got involved with five gurls minus the two that were there before the app as standbys (Don't bother judging me,i've done that already).However,these gurls would swear i am nice,caring and loving,but knowing the kind of person i ordinarily am,i was plain heartless! I called often,listened often,make them feel special,but then again,a hawk pays attention to it's prey doesn't it? I toyed with seven hearts (I'm ashamed of it now so drop that judging attitude abeg,wetin?!) for over a month till i met someone.She was among the seven hearts but proved to be different from the other six and thus she won the highest percentage of my attention.
However,i still had these other six because i was still doing my study (I do that before going into any serious relationship) on her for you-know-what reasons.She proved to be different,like i said before and so as a result,i told myself it was time to return back to my old self.This person made me take a look at my closet and i realize how dirty and unkempt it was and knew i had to do some cleaning.I started doing the right thing,i started letting the numerous gurls go (Of course they felt i had broken their hearts,not knowing i was just saving them from impending excruciating pains).I used the last two weeks in the month of February to do this and so officially this month,i am left with just one gurl (Really,lucky her!...hehehehehehe).Although i am still in the studying stage and very much sane still...if you know what i mean...I just knew if i wanted my closet to smell fresh and look nice,then it should be cleaned.In other words,i knew if i wanted to accommodate 'Love',i need to create an atmosphere it can thrive in.That is what i have done and i am proud of it! Have a nice day people and just remember as humans we're liable to making mistakes,but we also should know that realizing them and making amends is what makes the difference.