Monday, February 21, 2011

You just got jilted? Lets celebrate!

For those of you who were jilted and keep complaining,crying and sulking,put a sock in it! When things happen,our thoughts always drift to negative things rather than the positive things.We think of so many stuffs like what it'd have been like had we been with the person we broke up with,how happy we'd have been and all those other hogwash.But lemme ask this,how did you know it'd have been lovely? How did you know it wouldn't have ended in a chaotic manner? What you have mostly is neat breakups or jilting,we mostly don't hear of the ones that lead to a party being killed or losing his or her life anyhow.

I've come to realize that rather than sitting in a corner sulking when we break up,we should be celebrating and jubilating.Breakups are good,we just don't open our eyes and mind to see that.If a guy or gurl breaks up with you,go out to a club or dancing bar and get your groove on.You're wondering what i'm taling about right? Well,here's it,it simply means you are a step closer to the perfect person for you.Before a breakup occurs,there are signs and in most cases,you even get tired out.Characters are exhibited,mood swings are incessant,frowns are regular,and you tend to drift apart.Even you,personally,know you are better of without all these.Before you sign up for a relationship,you have the mindset that it's all for happiness and when you don't get the happiness you sort,moving on ain't a bad idea at all.

However,i can almost hear somebody say "after all i have put in the relationship,will i just let it all go down the drain?".Well,i don't know about you,but i feel no price is too big to pay for happiness.Ladies are the ones who mostly think in that line.If they date a guy when he was broke till he starts making money and the guy starts messing up,they keep thinking about how much they have put in the relationship,and thus bear the trauma and awful things that the relationship is serving them.But this is injustice to their own selves and it ought not to be so.Relationship is way better with someone who doesn't have very much but makes you happy than with someone who can take you round the world only to make you sad afterward.Regardless of what you've suffered or endured,or what you've given or lost,no relationship is worth loss of happiness.If a relationship grows to a state where happiness is lost,then let the breakup set in by all means.

Did your boyfriend or gurlfriend just jilt you for any reason at all? Are you sitting by yourself crying and travelling down memory lane? Did you put your life on hold? Get your butt off the ground and open your eyes to see it's a blessing.Give me a call lets got to a club or karaoke bar to celebrate.You've just gotten one step towards your perfect match.If a person breaks up with you for any reason,it simply means he or she wasn't right for you,and why would you cry and want to kill yourself over such? I don talk my own finish o...Have a nice day ahead!

10 comments:

  1. Oooh sweets.. True, true, true words.. All we go through in life makes us stronger. So embrace d good n d bad n make d most of it..

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  2. Melanie-Thanks dear.If only we'd always see it that way.

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  3. Ha!!! True talk seriously. you should even thank God you got jilted before you got married or something. I really really HATE it when i hear women lament about not being able to leave cause they put too much into the relationship. Please oh, it's always better late than never. If he's not treating you right, then no matter how many years you've put in or even how many kids you've got- run i say! It's never too late even 20 years down the line. Sorry to say, but that's how i feel- if you're not happy, vamoose!

    Adiya

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  4. The Corner Shop-I so like the way you said that.You definitely killed it! I also marvel when people say they've put too much in their relationship and so can't leave even when being treated unfairly,it's just trash!

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  5. Can you blame them though. Its not easy for some people to just let go like that. It takes time. I have met a handful of babes that go through it. Its easier said than done.

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  6. BSNC-Yeah,it's true that it's not easy,but that doesn't mean you'd spend a good part of your time brooding over something that has ended.If you have it in mind that a breakup gets you closer to the right person,trust me,you won't have time to waste crying!

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  7. Just saw this....heheheheheh, not me.... m off!!!

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  8. HoneyDame-Come back here *runs after her* Why are you running off?

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